Amour Ewig

Optical communication is the mode of communication whose roots go back to 19th century. Being a researcher in Optical & Photonics field, I can correlate the optical communication with our life very well. In this post, the human life is compared to the way optical communication works. In sort if I say, "Life is an analogy to optical communication". Fiber optics is the important component of optical communication. Optical fibers are used now a days as the fastest mode of wired communication. The signal is transmitted in the form of light from transmitter to receiver via optical fiber. In this mode of communication, the losses are less as compared to the one in copper cables. In copper cables the electromagnetic interference is the phenomenon responsible for high losses as signals flow in electric current form, while in optical fiber the signal travel in light form. Now a days, optical fibers are used for 60% of communication in the world, connecting the continents, mak...

The 21st century is the digital age. The digital revolution has turned the world into a small village. The earth is continuously shrinking as the speed of communication is getting faster and faster. The 4G is already in use, while the 5G is on the verge to launch in the market. The communication development is bringing people closer. In this post, I am going to share, How the social media is affecting us psychologically. Every coin has two sides (usually seen by most of us), but I prefer to see the third side of the coin too. The social media has bring lot of positive, but also a negative changes in our society (speaking without being biased). Our brain is designed in such a way that we start judging the things before going into the depth of it. For example, if we see the post or picture in social media, we start judging that, if we become friend with someone, without knowing him or her we start judging him/her and there are many such examples in today's world. For some people s...

Everything in the world need a source of energy. To run or do processing a power supply is need, let it be living thing or non - living thing. This is the nature of law. We know the nature is the supreme power in this universe. Some days before I read a wonderful article about the hidden treasure : most powerful thing in the world. When the human beings were created, the god thought to hide the biggest powerful tool which is needed in life to achieve success and soul full of happiness. At first the God decided to put this power deep in the ocean so that a human being cannot find it. But he thought that human being will be able to get it from there by his dedication, so he thought to put it on top of the highest  mountain. But human being is capable of find it there too. God thought to put it deep inside the earth, then God realised that human being is capable of found it from there too. So, after giving a thought to all the hardest achievable points, God decided to put it in...

In our society, the emotional person is considered weak. People see him/her as a taboo and scattered person. But they forget that we all are having emotions, we are human beings. Emotions exist in our behaviour because they are important for us. According to psychologists, the emotions plays a very crucial role to live life happily and cherishful. But the important thing is, how we mould our emotions?How we use them? Do we allow them to run our life? Doe we allow them to overpower our thoughts? Emotional intelligence is one of the most important aspect which sometimes we neglect knowingly or unknowingly. We generally focus only on IQ and forget about emotional intelligence. The people with emotions is considered as weak in society, but the people with Emotional intelligence is considered as role model in society and people praise that person. Being emotional is not bad, but not able to use our emotions in right way is a weakness. So, the weakness is not in being emotional, its in ...

The world has become a small village now a days. We are living in 21st Century, popularly known as technical era. Advancements in technology made it possible to have good social contacts. Social media is one of the biggest market in world and give people a possibility to come closer and exchange their views, ideas, etc. It give opportunity to learn about different culture, languages, customs etc. There is vast influence of social networking sites on intercultural love. We have 195 countries on earth. Every country has their own customs, traditions, languages, culture. So, we have hundred thousands cultures on our mother earth. We can find the different way of expressing love and affections in a same country at almost every 500 Km. So, now the question is : How the culture affect the love? How it affect the relationships? How the different way of thinking on same thing of two people can affect the relationship? Love doesn't see religion, caste, culture, country, language, conti...

Life is a diary, consist of  the blank pages the moment we take  birth and complete book when we go from this world. Between the date of birth and death of birth, whatever happens matters a lot. Sometimes we left it over to our destiny, rather than believing in writing your own destiny. We start taking the decisions on our or someone else's past experiences,  instead of writing our own page by our own sense. We forgot that time which is passed is the past, it's never going to come in future and it hardly plays some role in present (if we act wisely and learn from it in positive way). I am not saying that learning from past is not good, but being afraid of taking decisions or risks based on past bad experiences is not at all correct. Love is the way of living life. Have you ever observed when you start liking something, for example your morning coffee, you feel a different sense of pleasure and happiness in that moment. You become relax and positive vibes comes out fr...

We are living in the world full of opportunities and exposures. Most of situations depends on how we introspect them. These bucket of opportunities give rise to expectations. Expectations are one of the core reason of all miseries and sadness in our life. Some great person has truly said "Nothing is good or bad , thinking make it so".  Every coin has 3 sides, the wise decision is to stand on third side (which is seen by vary few persons) and then see both the sides very deeply before taking any decision. Most of us have habit of seeing only one side of coin and take decision, sometimes it lead us to worst results which could have been better if we have introspected both the sides before taking any decision. We human beings are social animals. Our near and dear ones have expectations from us, we have expectations from them i.e parents, friends, lovers,etc. We almost spend our whole life in fulfilling the expectations of others (vary culture to culture). Ou parents have ex...

Love: What is this? Yes, this is one of the most warming question in our generation. Because most of the time we misunderstood it's meaning.  We see someone and then we suddenly think that we are in Love with that person. But in fact it's just an affection at very first sight. I am not saying that there is no Love at first sight. Love happens at first sight also, but it's very rare and doesn't happen with everyone.    In our generation 85-90% Love comes after hook ups. After spending that night we think, if I love him or her. Most of the time we misunderstood love with Lust. I know that i am being very straight forward and most of the people will contradict  my opinion, but this is what we see in our surrounding now a days. As i mentioned in my Earlier post, Love :Is an Eternal feeling. This is the one which cannot be described in words. It's more than what we say, it all about the feelings and soul to soul connection. True love is always soul to soul conn...

One Sided Love (OSL)is one of the most wonderful feeling in the world.It has an immense beauty in it. Loving someone or being felt loved by someone is the desire and need of every human being. The god has created this feeling and gave power to us, for enjoying this beauty. It's the one which can be feel by the person who's Love is pure and true. There are no show off, no shyness, no shame, no guilt, no expectations and no desires from the better half. Only the desire to give more and more, nothing to take from him/her. If you can feel it deep inside your heart, if you can realize his/her presence with you every time, even though he/she is not with you. That is the power of true Love. Love is not about possessions. It is not about tit-for-tat. It is not about comparing how much you have done for him/her or how much he/she has done for you. It's about just bearing your responsibility honestly, just performing your role and expecting nothing in return. Most of the people wi...

Life is an awesome journey. We encounter many people in our life, some becomes more than blood relations from stranger, some become stranger from blood relations, some are important part of our life, others are just for fulfillment of necessary requirements. Today is the tomorrow which we dream of yesterday, tomorrow will be again today and life goes on like this. What matters is how we are living our today to make our today memorable and your upcoming tomorrow too. Life doesn't stops for anyone, time is the only constant which move at constant rate. Nothing is secure, nothing is permanent, everything is changeable, every moment changed. A great writer said it truly that,"If winter comes, than spring will not be far behind". One of the important aspect of life is the constant learning. Learning from others, both from living and non-living things. The life cycle is really small to learn and know about our surroundings, so making every moment worthwhile is worthy. W...

Life becomes the way we see it. Nothing is good or bad, thinking make it so. Usually we see two sides of the coins, but the people who learn from the mistakes and are 10% who lead the world see three sides of coins. And then decide to prefer which side and focus more on that, while learning from other side. The world becomes the way we make it's image in our mind. People who cannot see from eyes, also can see the world decide what is good and bad. Same smile can meant differently to two persons. It's all about how we have trained our brain based on our past experiences and mostly based on what we hear from others. We all have two roads in front of us at each and every junction of life, which road we take decides our next junction point in life.The fact is that we take decision mostly on the basis of people's experiences of those roads and choose the best suitable for us(rather i say secure for us). But the fact of life is , nothing is secure in this world. Whate...