The habit of Judgement
The 21st century is the digital age. The digital revolution has turned the world into a small village. The earth is continuously shrinking as the speed of communication is getting faster and faster. The 4G is already in use, while the 5G is on the verge to launch in the market. The communication development is bringing people closer. In this post, I am going to share, How the social media is affecting us psychologically.
Every coin has two sides (usually seen by most of us), but I prefer to see the third side of the coin too. The social media has bring lot of positive, but also a negative changes in our society (speaking without being biased). Our brain is designed in such a way that we start judging the things before going into the depth of it. For example, if we see the post or picture in social media, we start judging that, if we become friend with someone, without knowing him or her we start judging him/her and there are many such examples in today's world. For some people something is good, while for other same is bad according to their point of view. There is a great saying, "Nothing is Good or Bad, thinking make it so".
We take decision or rather to be more precise I should say, we judge the situations, person. etc. on our previous experiences or what we heard from others. Even without going into the cause of that situation or learning about the person. We hardly try to go behind the screen and find the big "WHY?" behind it. Because our mind or brain is not usually customized in a way to go for it, it needs energy, it needs power, it needs time: which are brain usually avoid, until unless we train to go for the big "WHY"?
The decisions we take in our life, plays a crucial role in paving our future path. Today's decisions, affect tomorrow's situation. Thereby, taking correct decisions (according to you, it may be wrong according to others) is really important. The life is a blank diary, in which we write our story each and every moment. It applies for all of us. But when it comes to understanding or knowing other person, most of us just start "Judging" another person, without even reading his/her diary of life.
We all are different and we all are unique. Everyone of us is having good as well as bad characteristics, as human beings we have a power to think logically and take decisions. Instead of judging other person, if try to go into the deep "Why" and find the soul reason, read his/her diary, then we can spread love, peace and harmony more in our society. It will bring people together and remove hate and jealousy. Also, it's our responsibility to learn from the past ( but not judge on the basis of past), make present beautiful and pave the wonderful path to future.
Every coin has two sides (usually seen by most of us), but I prefer to see the third side of the coin too. The social media has bring lot of positive, but also a negative changes in our society (speaking without being biased). Our brain is designed in such a way that we start judging the things before going into the depth of it. For example, if we see the post or picture in social media, we start judging that, if we become friend with someone, without knowing him or her we start judging him/her and there are many such examples in today's world. For some people something is good, while for other same is bad according to their point of view. There is a great saying, "Nothing is Good or Bad, thinking make it so".
We take decision or rather to be more precise I should say, we judge the situations, person. etc. on our previous experiences or what we heard from others. Even without going into the cause of that situation or learning about the person. We hardly try to go behind the screen and find the big "WHY?" behind it. Because our mind or brain is not usually customized in a way to go for it, it needs energy, it needs power, it needs time: which are brain usually avoid, until unless we train to go for the big "WHY"?The decisions we take in our life, plays a crucial role in paving our future path. Today's decisions, affect tomorrow's situation. Thereby, taking correct decisions (according to you, it may be wrong according to others) is really important. The life is a blank diary, in which we write our story each and every moment. It applies for all of us. But when it comes to understanding or knowing other person, most of us just start "Judging" another person, without even reading his/her diary of life.
We all are different and we all are unique. Everyone of us is having good as well as bad characteristics, as human beings we have a power to think logically and take decisions. Instead of judging other person, if try to go into the deep "Why" and find the soul reason, read his/her diary, then we can spread love, peace and harmony more in our society. It will bring people together and remove hate and jealousy. Also, it's our responsibility to learn from the past ( but not judge on the basis of past), make present beautiful and pave the wonderful path to future.
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